Anime with female lead (not shy, not annoyingly bad at communication) and male leads who fight over her (or if it's just one male lead then is both good looking (so NOT your average joe) and badass in some kinda way?) Could be romance or not
More specifically, I look online for romance recommendations and EVERY SINGLE DAMN ONE is with a wimpy, average joe who does not put any effort into his looks with a beautifully stunning jaw dropping female lead who has no reason to be with him (yes, not even for his personality). Tired of it. Here's what I want to see:
I want to see female leads who arent stuck in their heads 24/7 thinking about if the guy likes them or not, the focus of the anime SHOULDNT JUST be about their romance (think Kimi no todoke, hated it), it should be part of a larger story and something that helps the plot along. I want to see male leads who look interesting (think different colored or styled hair, cool eye colors). I want violence, lots of it. Toxicity is also welcomed but not towards the female lead. It'd also be nice to see love triangles where there are multiple dudes fighting over female lead, but not explicitly, like how Yakuza girlfriend does it. I don't really like fantasy elements but theyre okay if there's really nothing out there like this. I also don't like psychological horror, super large harems (where there's like 20 guys fighting over one girl), and annoyingly high pitched male or female voices...
Dark romance, thriller, crime, all welcome
Examples
\- Yakuza's guide to babysitting (badass male lead, lovable)
\- Yakuza girlfriend (badass male lead and ok female lead that gets better over time)
\- May I ask for one final thing (badass female lead and male lead who's there for her)
Examples that still kinda fit but not super what im looking for:
\- Horimiya (for good communication)
\- The ice guy and his cool female colleague (again for good communication)
\- Kaichou wa maid sama
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I want to see female leads who arent stuck in their heads 24/7 thinking about if the guy likes them or not, the focus of the anime SHOULDNT JUST be about their romance (think Kimi no todoke, hated it), it should be part of a larger story and something that helps the plot along. I want to see male leads who look interesting (think different colored or styled hair, cool eye colors). I want violence, lots of it. Toxicity is also welcomed but not towards the female lead. It'd also be nice to see love triangles where there are multiple dudes fighting over female lead, but not explicitly, like how Yakuza girlfriend does it. I don't really like fantasy elements but theyre okay if there's really nothing out there like this. I also don't like psychological horror, super large harems (where there's like 20 guys fighting over one girl), and annoyingly high pitched male or female voices...
Dark romance, thriller, crime, all welcome
Examples
\- Yakuza's guide to babysitting (badass male lead, lovable)
\- Yakuza girlfriend (badass male lead and ok female lead that gets better over time)
\- May I ask for one final thing (badass female lead and male lead who's there for her)
Examples that still kinda fit but not super what im looking for:
\- Horimiya (for good communication)
\- The ice guy and his cool female colleague (again for good communication)
\- Kaichou wa maid sama
\-
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1.The Apothecary Diaries
2.Doctor Elise: The Royal Lady With The Lamp
3.Fruits Basket
4.Wandering Witch: The Journey of Elaina (no male lead, still a peak anime)
5.Zenshu (the animation is done by MAPPA, it's peak)
6. 7th Time Loop
7.The Do over damsel conquers the dragon emperor (tho the age gap can seem weird)
8.High Rise Invasion (gl, but lots of action)
9.The Future Diary
(tho male mc is a bit dumb, "I'm not using her, I'm utilising her" like who tf wrote the male mc, despite its trashy writing, it's still fun and gory, the anime which made yandere term popular)
10.My Happy Marrige
11. The Too-Perfect Saint
In my opinion, you should watch 1, 2, 3 , 5, 6 ,9, 10
Either way it's your choice.
Enjoy!
Thank you so much <3
Enjoy!
*Romantic Killer*, though it doesn't have much violence.
If "Yakuza girlfriend" is different from *Yakuza Fiance*, then *Yakuza Fiance*, though the ML is somewhat toxic.
*Most Heretical Last Boss Queen*, but it's fantasy.
*Ouran High School Host Club*, but again no violence.