Toumei Otoko to Ningen Onna: Sonouchi Fuufu ni Naru Futari • The Invisible Man and His Soon-to-Be Wife - Episode 3 discussion
*Toumei Otoko to Ningen Onna: Sonouchi Fuufu ni Naru Futari*, episode 3
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[Such a casual reveal.](https://i.imgur.com/EBmRenr.jpeg) Just like the rest of the show.
Of course when your daughter is blind, there's only two possible attitudes: "Must protecc," And "Holy shit she actually found someone. We can't fuck this up." Mama chose the second one.
>Of course when your daughter is blind, there's only two possible attitudes: "Must protecc," And "Holy shit she actually found someone. We can't fuck this up." Mama chose the second one.
Well, she saw Tonome and knew that He would protect her daughter. She won the lottery (and the bakery too ahah) with her son-in-law
how wild would it be if her mom (during her spot check) left that "handkerchief" on the floor to help speed things along with potential boyfriends
Edit: Oh my god, I just realized Tounome was already leaving the pharmacy with a bag of stuff to bring to Yakou when they were on the phone. He's got her figured out, so cute
I noticed the new suit he was wearing had a real Loid Forger look to it. Dude looked pretty sharp.
I like how even though Tonome is most of the time gentlemanly he still has some goofy and happy moments, even though we can’t see his face we already know his expressions.
And yeah, despite the fact that tonome is invisible and we can't see his face, it's like we can "see" his expressions, and I like how he can be goofy too
The man loves his fancy suits!
He’d acted a bit coldly towards Madaraito at the office, yet wished him a safe trip home. Kikira is such a tsundere (lol).
THE MOUNTAIN, WHAT HAPPENED AT THE MOUNTAIN!!??
Akazami, please stop sounding like the ultimate man, my heart can’t take it.
キチョコチョ😭
The OP is just so fucking cute. It makes me feel nostalgia for no reason.
>𝒲𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒾𝓃𝓋𝒾𝓉ℯ 𝓂ℯ 𝒾𝓃 𝒻ℴ𝓇 𝓉ℯ𝒶 𝒶𝑔𝒶𝒾𝓃?
📢Akazami, please keep having a stupid sexy voice, thank you 📢
In what world are panties and handkerchiefs remotely close 😭
Shizuka’s squeaks are me when Akazami speaks. I feel her spiritually.
Oh my stars and garters 😳
>You’re invisible, man.
**Say that again**.
The inclusion 🥹
^(screaming) 🏳️🌈
Oh my fucking god that scene change was fucking adorable.
Why are the little things we do for the ones we love always so goddamn cute?! Fuck! It’s fucking cute!
Oh I’d die on the spot. Oh my god the secondhand embarrassment.
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The scene of Tonome showing off his suit in the office reminds me of how little people use alt-text and how a lot of people who rely on screen readers will be unable to participate in discussions that are image-based. Even with people who use alt-text, the way they describe things is either *very* sparse or full of humor to the point that it dilutes what the image is and can create confusion.
Casual, nonmalicious exclusion happens all the time with multiple disabilities. Inclusion and accessibility for everyone is difficult. Doesn’t mean we should stop trying to be mindful 🌻
I fear that the OP’s “ding dong ding dong” is something I’ve been repeating at random.
I’d love more BL adaptations with Daichi’s body type (and age) 🏳️🌈
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EDIT: confused two stupid sexy seiyuus
This is a surprisingly solid season for LGBTQ+ characters.
And yeah, we have "Isekaii office worker the other world's books depend on the bean counter" (the main couple), "Hana-Kimi" (the gay doctor/sensei and Nakatsu with his kind of gay awakening) and now a gay couple in this series. What else? There is also "a gentle Noble's Vacation Recommendation" which has...ehm..."deep camaraderie" XD
Akazami is just as stupid sexy as Umehara, but my brain was addled. Sorry about that!
[](#hikariactually)
damn
They really cooked this entire episode start to finish, this was wonderfully fluffy and that piece of ass fanservice is the perfect cherry on top 🙏
reminds me of the best parts of Yama no Susume (anime of the year every year) and Mono; playful, fluid, and expressive
[](#kotourashock)
Yako’s personality has gotten so much more expressive after she started dating Tonome, which is only further emphasised by this great animation. It’s clear that she’s fallen deeply in love with him.
The cooking part is so good
it's something that i appreciate in other shows that i watch for their comfy factor
I did wonder previous weeks why when he ate ice cream it disappears in his mouth but when he drank tea we can see it down his throat. I guess we got the explanation.
Karma is a menace though lol. “He’s a transparent guy” lmao
Yako’s mom is really sweet too. She seems very warm and loving to Yako. And it was nice to see more of the difficulties of the blind. It does suck not being able to discuss topics involving sight like colors, although it was sweet of Tounome to include her with her sense of touch. Dropping things also seems like a hassle for the blind especially if you live alone. You risk your boyfriend seeing your handkerchief on the floor lol
Tounome has been very gentlemanly too but it was nice to see he can lose composure a bit when Yako’s mom came in lol. I do like when a love interest is not all-perfect.
Also, I did wonder before the show aired, with an Invisible man, a blind girl and a cat girl in the visual, if Kikira has something unusual about him. I thought he’d be a furry and be into Jarashi but then he mentioned he had a partner, so I thought he’s just a normal guy. But then now we know he’s gay, so I guess he’s just a normal gay guy lol
And Shizuka was so certain she'd put all her clothes away too lol.
The puns this episode were awesome.
Just like when he asked of his new suit *suited* him...I was like ha. I love to see it.
Goodness I need more of this wholesomeness - this is an adult cast romance done right.
Yeah. Tonome has been very attentive of Yako’s needs. He must’ve realised during his talk with Kikira and Jarishi that Yako had stayed quiet because she couldn’t see his suit. Letting her touch the fabric would let Yako join in on the fun.
Edit: Cute Episode. Tea was also good.
Somehow the new suit brings to mind Loid from Spy x Family.
Oh, there's another couple in the show... and its the grumpy rotund guy with the just introduced cheerful lawyer dude.
All in all, this continues being cute and light fun.
Look at Shizuka going out of her way to invite Tonome to walk home to her place for tea! And getting in some romantic time in-between! Be bold in spending time with the BF, Shizuka!
How do you tell your blind girlfriend she left one of her panties lying on the ground? Oh yeah, it's a handkerchief, just a handkerchief.
The mechanics of invisible eating! Tonome doesn't have to worry about how he eats around his girlfriend! She can't see anything anyways:!
They're finally on a first name basis (a critical hit for Shizuka) and working out how to kiss each other! Starting with a forehead kiss!
How does a blind girl compliment her boyfriends' new outfit? By feeling the fabric and commenting on how happy he is about the clothes he wears. Invisible people are legally restricted from going fully invisible, aside from Tonome having special permission, but his clothes are really one of the best ways he knows how to express himself.
Hey, it's Shizuka's mom! Voiced by Houko Kawashima? And Light's husband really doesn't know how to keep his mouth shut. Imagine learning about your daughter having a boyfriend from him of all people.
Shizuka and Akira can't help but be flirty and nearly call each other by their first name at work...so at this point they should really stop hiding the fact that they're a couple. Kikira has had enough.
Madaraito (Junya Enoki!) is a lawyer and fellow suits aficionado who works with the Tonome Agency...and he's Kikira's partner! What an unexpected coupling, but they seem happy together and "Daichi" is sweet on his man. They're even high school sweethearts who may or may not have had their own Brokeback Mountain experience.
The pleasure of having a boyfriend is having him be there for you and tend to you during a sick episode. Akira even makes and feeds her porridge and gets all close and intimate with her...and did we mention Shizuka's mom is also there and saw everything? At least she was nice enough to see herself out quick after meeting her daughters' boyfriend.
And let me repeat what was already mentioned in this thread: wow, Tounome has a really good ass. He cooked very well, and Iʼm saying not only about rice.
The development of the leads relationship was cute once again. I like that they're talking about the tricky aspects of their relationship like how to figure out the timing of a kiss.
But Tonome's penchant for fashion and him saying that clothes were the one way he could express himself made me wonder if it wouldn't be a sore point that Yako can't share in that. It felt a bit sad when he was all excitedly discussing the colour of his suit with the others and she thought to herself that she couldn't really participate in that conversation. It was however nice of him to immediately come up to her and try to include her by letting her feel the fabric. So I guess there's always a way around if you really care. :)
This show just makes me so happy. Surprise feel good show of the season for sure (I called it the Mangaka anime of this season in the last episode thread and I stand by that).
I loved the lore introduced in this episode, answering some of the questions we had previously:
\- It takes a couple of seconds for the food to turn invisible when in Tounome's mouth. No wonder we could see the drink going down his throat previously.
\- There is a "body switch" for Tounome to turn his clothes and items in contact with his body invisible. It does not work on living things, such as when holding hands with Shizuka.
\- It is illegal for invisible people to go fully invisible when in public although certain exceptions may apply, one example being Tounome's job as a detective.
\- Invisible people can't catch human cold?
Shizuka's mother is very understanding. Putting ourselves into her shoes, I am sure she wants her daughter to find a loving and considerate husband, even more so given Shizuka's condition.
Yeah, this one caught me off guard, it would imply he isn't human (and maybe can't have kids together if their DNA doesn't match).
Maybe best not to think too deeply on it, it's fantasy land, anything is possible I guess.
I expected Kikira to be gay because he gave me bara vibes for some reason, but I'm glad it was a casual reveal and no one was weirded out by that. And his boyfriend seems like a funny solar character. Hope we will see him often.
P.S damn Tonome has a whole bakery! XD
they were also featured together in the OP, so i figured they might have some sort of relationship with each other
[](#csikon)
Promise?
Right. A weekend getaway.
Lol that guy thinks he's intruding.
And so they're at her place.
Of all the things she can't see lying around...
Yeah...
Oh he knew _exactly_ what he picked up lol.
So, clothes.
Huh. That's convenient.
Handholding!
She's blushing!
Lol that guy said that right in front of his wife, why was he expecting...
Oh they haven't told anyone else yet have they?
So, another job.
And so he's giving fashion tips.
Good for them I guess.
So, she's unwell.
Oh, her mum overheard that.
Ah. She probably wanted to give them some alone time.
And so he's feeding her.
Nom.
Kikira being so gruff even with his partner is fun, nice to get confirmation on my OP based guess from last week.
Interesting detail that went by with oni Shizuka pulling out an earpiece when she went into the quickly derailed super work mode, I assume that was her text to speech equipment so the entire office doesn't have to listen.
Decent way to meet the soon to be mother in law, caring for her sick daughter like that has got to earn some points.
In case anyone (anywhere, on the entire planet) didn't see it the full version of the OP is up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6c98dpiJCQ
I really like seeing how much more affectionate the two have become now that they're officially dating. The hug at the office, Tounome wanting to kiss Yakou, Yakou wanting to be spoiled by Tounome, such gush inducing moments.
I thought as much last episode but Kikira's partner really was a guy, I like how they're opposites that attracted one another. I was really surprised to find out they've been dating since high school, I'm very curious about that mountain story.
It's funny how Kikira only told Yakou and Tounome to call each other by their first names once he realized how tiring it'd be to hear them be awkward about it lol.
Also, Tounome certainly has some cake! I did not miss those curves when he got on Yakou's bed, damn.
- [Dang, this part about Yako becoming a “demon for work” went hard for no reason.](https://i.imgur.com/PWDiRsi.png) [](#neat)
- [Oh, it is quite cute how Tonome kinda guards her on the train](https://i.imgur.com/VVp1jTE.png) even if it isn’t packed.
- […well this is awkward.](https://i.imgur.com/ES3sj23.png) [](#emiliaohdear)
- [Huh, interesting.](https://i.imgur.com/dyF3Z7f.png)
- [That would be nice!](https://i.imgur.com/5atduL6.png) [](#seasonalhype)
- [Makes sense that there would be regulations for this.](https://i.imgur.com/ZvSyJg6.png) [](#wakarimasu)
- [That’s how her mom found out she’s dating Tonome?](https://i.imgur.com/mRSXhvk.png) [](#azusalaugh)
- [Oh!](https://i.imgur.com/HVKLAeg.png) [](#suddenshock) Opposites attract, I suppose.
- [Aw.](https://i.imgur.com/OM2OMmp.png) [](#araara)
- [She’s into that, huh.](https://i.imgur.com/2hDx473.png)
- [And this is how Tonome meets Yako’s mom…](https://i.imgur.com/DvwIUne.png) [](#crazedlaugh)
also just noticing, was that title choice intentional back then? as in mountain where they broke each other backs?
More then just hand holding, decently written world building, insanely cute protagonists AND a gay side couple? Just giga peak.
I also liked how they explained a lot of odd things from the show, like it didn't make sense how Tonome's suit turned invisible seemingly at will for him but the explanation that he can touch things and secrete something and make them invisible makes sense. Also how he keeps food in his mouth for 2 seconds before chewing to have good manners was interesting. One thing that was surprising was that he can't catch human illnesses, which wasn't explained but I hope they do later, like is he from an invisible race of beings different from humans or even possibly from another planet originally?
The IT guy dating the lawyer was surprising. At first I thought it was really strange because he's a cheerless grump and the lawyer is so upbeat, it made me wonder how one thought to ask the other out. Them getting together in high school does make the most sense; I kind of wish they could have that be a prequel show and it would also be interesting to see a school with all the various beastpeople, elves and invisible people 😂
Karma was such a rude dick in this episode, he is the nosiest elf man in the world! That's funny how he's 100 years old and so tactless. I know some old human people are like that because they're old and don't care, but he's as vital as a young man seemingly and may have hundreds of years ahead of him for all we know.
We’ve been spoiled with romcoms this season. Polar Opposites rightfully gets attention, but this show should not be ignored!
Also, unexpected mountain lawyer boyfriend partner. Waiting for Jarashi's own curveball.
It could have so easily been so lazy in it's style. I'm also glad that the characters are adults. If this was set in the school room with high school students as the central group of characters I would have noped out so hard.